Sometimes I wonder why i had children for them to never get along. The three of them are like oil and water and they never mix. The two older ones 35 and 33 male and female usually get along but tonight it was like cats and dogs fighting. My son who is 33 is NEVER and I MEAN NEVER in a good mood!! He was born in a bad mood and he is always right. My daughter is going through a lot of things and she is never in a good mood either. I understand the mood but it just makes it harder and harder for me to be around anyone lately.
Wednesday, December 22, 2010
Saturday, December 18, 2010
Christmas is almost here!!
Well Christmas is almost here and do I buy something for the younger grandkids or let it go since my daughter is not allowing me to see my grandchildren? What do you do in a case like that? Do you buy them something just in case or do you let it go because the two youngest are to young to know the difference? The older ones I am buying stuff for because they are 12 and 10 and they would never understand why grandma didn't buy them anything?
Monday, December 13, 2010
Life
Well I thought my daughter was going to have the happy life. She married someone she had know for mnay years and he adopted her two children and then they had a child of their own together.
Here is where the story starts to change. He was such a LAZY person and would take time off to be with the family all the time. Now as a parent I thought that was a good thing because he was a family man. Wrong he ended up being a child molester to my beatiful granddaughter that the whole family has to deal with that now.
How does a man touch own daughter? That makes me want to vomit and then stab the crap out of him. You think that things are going ok, yeah he an animal!! I don't understand the logic of how the child ends up getting used to it either. How the mother feels so bad because she didn't know it was happening? She is driving herself nuts. That is like a ripple effect and then it drives me nuts because I can feel her hurting.
The youngest boy has no idea why can't see his father who is in jail because of what he did and how do we deal with all of this? Day at a time and trying to get all of this out of your head? How do you do that? How do you explain to a 10 year old that his father was touching his sister for many years? How do you sleep at night as a grandma knowing what they are all going though?
Here is where the story starts to change. He was such a LAZY person and would take time off to be with the family all the time. Now as a parent I thought that was a good thing because he was a family man. Wrong he ended up being a child molester to my beatiful granddaughter that the whole family has to deal with that now.
How does a man touch own daughter? That makes me want to vomit and then stab the crap out of him. You think that things are going ok, yeah he an animal!! I don't understand the logic of how the child ends up getting used to it either. How the mother feels so bad because she didn't know it was happening? She is driving herself nuts. That is like a ripple effect and then it drives me nuts because I can feel her hurting.
The youngest boy has no idea why can't see his father who is in jail because of what he did and how do we deal with all of this? Day at a time and trying to get all of this out of your head? How do you do that? How do you explain to a 10 year old that his father was touching his sister for many years? How do you sleep at night as a grandma knowing what they are all going though?
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